I've been wondering why. Guys try so hard - sometimes a little too hard - to do so many things to please the girls they have feelings for. They put more than 100% effort in whatever they do, just so they can get the girl they've always dreamed of - trying to ask her out almost everyday, sending her home, non-stop texting, putting his friends aside for her, doing things that would totally melt her heart and the list goes on.

But the moment the girl says the golden word, "YES", everything just gradually vanishes. Sad, but true.

It's almost like we girls asked for it, we got too caught up into the moment and we just forgot that that's what guys do to win our heart.

Why can't guys just be themselves and just give what they can? Why give girls hope that they can and will do the above things when in fact, they can't. Maybe I'm just being fussy about it, but seriously, give it a thought. How many times does your phone ring a day? How many times have they tried to ask you out? How many times have they said things which would totally make you go: "Awwwww stop it you, i'm not that fantastic/awesome". I guess it's just a phase every relationship has to go through?

I once heard something about this.

I totally agree, when I first heard it. But now come to think of it, nah~ Yes guys give it their all when they're chasing/wooing the girl of their dreams. But the moment it gets too comfortable and familiar with his girlfriend, it just gradually dies off, which explains why girls starts to harbor the above thought.

I'm totally not standing on the ladies' side, or being prejudice to any sex. It just occurs to me that, it's not totally possible for guys to continue the things they did during the chasing/wooing stage, and it's not possible for ladies to not have that thought.

It's just something that popped up in my mind, and thought I should have it written down. Give it a thought, maybe you guys may think otherwise?