Suddenly feel like posting here. Random post.

Sometimes, we keep looking back.
Not able to forget the past.
And we tend to keep hanging on to it, not willing to let go.
And when we meet something pleasant now,
we tend to take it for granted.
Only learning to regret and blame when things start to turn sour.
When we start to lose something.

However, do people know,
that the reason people ask us to forget the past,
is because they want us to accept the future,
and see things in a different light?
We may lose something in the past,
but gain something valuable and precious in the future.
Currently you maybe cursing,
saying how unfair life is.
But looking at the life and fate of the other people.
Those who are poor and unable to settle their debts,
and having to resort to borrowing from loansharks.
Those who met with an accident,
and were most probably bed-ridden or wheelchair-bound.
Compared to them, where we are fine,
able to live life and doing the things we CAN do and WANT to do,
we are much better off than them.

SO, what's there to complain for us?
Irritating parents who never seem to stop nagging?
Detestable siblings we never stop picking out a fight, arguing and quarreling with you?
Ungrateful friends who stabbed you in the back, leaving you in the lurch?
Understand this people,
that parents nag, because they love and care for us.
Siblings quarrel with us, but this strengthens our relationship in future doesnt it?
And it does make us closer with each other,
as now we know what they like and dislike.
And we can easily avoid those conflicts.
Friends backstabbed?
Common case.
But does it occur to you,
that they may be feeling good about backstabbing you right now.
But in future,
they would lose the basic trust of other friends.
And they would be leading a miserable life throughout their life journey.

For me, I may have lose a valuable and unforgettable friendship.
I may not be able to let go, I admit.
But I know I'm trying hard to let go.
Because I know there are other friends that will support me.
Most importantly,
other people who will cherish me and the friendship with them.
This lost of friendship,
made me gain and forge new friendship with other friends.
It also made me find my perfect boy, WEEHONGRUI.

Lengthy post alright,
but thats all I want to say.
I'm not emo-ing or anything.
Just reflecting on life,
thats all.
And, its not directed at anyone, fyi.